Friday, November 22, 2013

Upcoming Event!

Upcoming Event!

"Getting Connected" Retreat 
January 2 − 4, 2014
6-9pm Thursday
 9am-6pm Friday & Saturday
 
LocationCamp Luz
152 Kidron Road
Orrville, Ohio 44667

*2 ½ days of training
*Lunch included Friday & Saturday
  
Center for Victory Intensive Retreat

The intensive retreat experience is time away from the pressures of the world to focus on new, practical models of breaking through barriers to achieve new success.
Participants are men, women, couples, fathers, mothers, wives, husbands and families - anyone seeking to achieve success by connecting to the personal power of their potential and their relationships.
Whether the focus is on parenting issues, relating to your spouse, improving family or work relationships or simply achieving ultimate personal success, this retreat experience is for you.
In a focused yet relaxed setting, retreat participants are able to connect personally with their potential and better understand the power of their relationships to enhance their success. Participants leave the retreat with a personal plan of action and a set of practical tools that enable them to make changes and create new successes immediately

Who Should Attend? 
* Couples
* Families
* Individuals
* Anyone seeking to break-through to a new level of personal success

*Attendees MUST be 15 years 


Speaker: Eric Guy, LSW
Eric Guy is the Chief Victory Officer of Center for Victory, your champion for success that sets free a more productive and efficient person. Eric, an experienced licensed therapist, focuses on discovering the victor inside each person-by recognizing and overcoming external sources of stress, lifelong conditioned responses to pressure, and the like-to unlock each client's personal and professional potentials.
 
What others say about this Retreat Experience: 
 
"Thank you so much. I would do the two days over and over again. Absolutely one of the most positive experiences I have yet to encounter. Thank you! Thank you!" - Denver father
  
"There is no way in the world that I can thank you for sharing your gifts and talents that initiated the internal metamorphosis in me . . . I can honestly say from the heart - not from my mind -that 
'I get it!'  - Idaho mother

 We look forward to seeing you there! 

~Eric

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$60
Early Bird Special!
* REGISTER BEFORE DECEMBER 13 to RECEIVE THE EARLY BIRD SPECIAL TO GET $60.00 off! 
Regular Registration Total Cost: $197.00   
Early Bird Special Total Cost: $137.00


The Costanza Effect

 The Costanza Effect
  
One of the unerring truths of life is that when we're stressed, we regress.  As the little annoyances start to bubble up and cluster into big irritants, we have the tendency to blow our tops.  Not only does this preclude a mature, rational approach to problem-solving, it exacerbates the situation.


When you're in a hole, stop digging.  When you see a fire, don't throw gasoline on it.  When the guy with the football has been tackled, don't pile on top after the whistle blows.  Pick your cliché or metaphor, but you get the idea.

As people let stress steer them into a regressed mindset, I think of George Costanza from the "Seinfeld" show.  In nearly every episode, life found a way to frustrate George into some level of frenzy, tizzy, and explosive outburst. 

In one memorable story, Jerry was at a dealership looking to get a new car while George tagged along for moral support.   Hungry from missing lunch, George spent the entire episode trying - and failing - to find something to eat.   He just missed the last of the free donuts in the customer lounge, his Twix bar got stuck in the vending machine, and he became convinced that a mechanic came in after him and stole it.  By the end of the show, George emits a primal howl to the universe in utter exasperation.  He has completely regressed to the level of a shouting infant in a playpen!





Stress is, was, and always will be the number one issue in building and maintaining a healthy, love-based life.  It does nasty things to us physiologically, as well as psychologically.  Stress limits thinking and reason.  The Seinfeld reference above treats it for laughs, but it can actually become quite serious, even dangerous.  Stress stinks. 
  
Look for ways to eliminate the sources of stress from your life.  Think intentionally about how you react to situations, and choose to avoid stress.  It takes a determined effort and lots of practice, but if you don't want to regress, you must limit your stress.
  
Be Well,
~Eric



Friday, November 15, 2013

Kenya Trip 2013

2013 KENYA TRIP

"Promoting Healing: Transforming 
the Inside to Champion the Outside"


Dear Friends , 

We have been blessed with a request to return to Western Kenya to help administrators and staff working with orphans who have come from some very difficult circumstances -- and you have the opportunity to play a vital role in this outreach.

From Nov. 22 through Dec. 6, our Center or Victory team will be at work with Love Unleashed, one of the four overseas Abba's Arms Ministry efforts supporting children at risk. Last year we had the chance to positively impact the lives of 2,500 children, and we hope to do the same this year.

Here's where you can help.  Tax-deductible donations to support this training can be made by clicking here:  


Enter your pledge under "Living Love Special Projects" and enter "Training and Consulting" in the box next to the dollar amount. If you would like to send your donation by mail, please send a check or money order to:

Love Unleashed
12002 Arnold Road
Orrville, OH 44667

We are indeed blessed -- you and I -- and it is our special privilege to reach out to these children, whose suffering comes through no fault of their own.  Thank you for your prayers and support as we prepare to return to Kenya.

Be Well,
~Eric

Monday, November 11, 2013